Anonymous sent: Hi!its random but i've been bothered for a while now about your tags for myungsoo not only you but other blogs too,you mock him all the time and you never talk about the good things he does,i mean you just ignore any effort from him and just reblog about him to make fun of him,im not hating or anything im just wondering why,even when the other members do something weird or funny or stupid you find it adorable but if its myungsoo you laugh at him and call him stupid and failure!!!

hi! oohh, this is actually a good ask! it’s not random at all; i think that if you read my tags and don’t know my intentions, it’s very easy to become bothered by them. it’s very understandable, so i’ll explain~ idk about other fans (though i’m pretty sure i know who you’re talking about lol they’re similar to me), but i’m a very sarcastic person by nature so most (read: ALL) of my tags are dripping with sarcasm. what does the sarcasm allude to? my utter helplessness for kim myungsoo’s unbearably handsome, adorable, dorky, hardworking, soft-hearted existence. i call him dumb and ridiculous and annoying, but i’m not serious at all. i say that because i’m desperately trying to hold onto my sanity as i witness a real blessing from God (lol). does that mean i have any problem appreciating and being “honest” about his good points? not at all! i can write essays about how lovely kim myungsoo is if i really wanted/needed to, but my blog is just for flailing over infinite so that means chaos all around, exaggeration at every turn, words of fury flitting across every post. so, basically- i write them that way because kim myungsoo seems like a near flawless person from what i can see so i exaggerate his dumb just to keep from crying about- yeah, see, i’m doing it again…exaggerating lol- him; BUUUUTT! the main point is that everything is just a jest- i have a life outside infinite tbh and so at the end of the day, i just like to have fun and write crazy things in my blog, all of it is sarcastic and overdramatic.

also, that doesn’t mean that i don’t think the other guys are great too! myungsoo actually isn’t my bias (i’ve recently come to terms that yes- lee sungyeol is my bias- but the others are NOT far behind). i think ALL of the members of infinite are great, but the thing is that the other members already have so much crap said about them (ie. gyudong is ugly, woohyun is fake, hoya is plain, sungyeol is untalented, sungjong is “gay” - oh no what an insult -_-) that their humanity is already so evident. i DO write that they are dumb and “i can’t stand you”, but i don’t feel the urge to write overly dramatic tags that they are silly humans just like us and not, in fact, some kind of weird elf prince that just happens to live among us. infinite and his family know very well of kim myungsoo’s humanly flaws, but we as fans don’t really get to see them, so the only “flaws” we get to see are that he’s rather dumb (again, not serious) and temperamental at times. so, sometimes it can get a little overwhelming to think that there’s a guy like him out there when i’m sitting here, trying not to be shitty (LOL). do you get what i mean? at the end of the day- none of what i say is serious anyway, so it’s not a big deal unless you make it a big deal, but if you tried to get to the hypothetical root of my weird-ass thinking, there you go. may i also mention that everyone i know calls me 4D or 5D so …that could play a part as well~ ㅋㅋㅋ

i hope that clears it up for you! if it doesn’t, which- it could NOT since we’re all different people with different mindsets, well, i tried lol. and it’s nice that you asked and tried to understand! that’s all i ask for~ we all have ways of dealing with beautiful people, and this is mine haha. well, thanks for asking!


okay, i KNOW this whole thing is scripted like hell, but that doesn’t and will not stop me from having fun with the fluffy ridiculousness of it all. and involuntarily getting feels because i cannot resist da myungyeol.

when it’s myungsoo’s turn to choose a partner, he states that for his criteria, he “demands honesty.” now, if we look at it simply- sungyeol turns out to be his perfect match because one of his most defining characteristics is his honesty. but, hey, honesty is one of his defining characteristics? oh, hey- myungsoo is his best friend and knows that about him? then hey! could myungsoo have chosen that as his requirement for a love-love partner because honesty thy name is lee sungyeol…? (because we all know kim sunggyu can be a lying, cheating little shit haha.) lol just a little silly food for thought.

if we also think of it in another way, myungsoo just likes sungyeol better, okay, there was no need for the embarrassing jiu imitation or kiss upon da head. what sunggyu said in his…audition…wasn’t exactly untrue. it was pretty true, it just pissed myungsoo off, that’s all. and in comparison, sungyeol’s confession seems more dishonest because it sounds so over the top and cheesy. but if you just strip him of the shame of speaking sincerely to his best friend (one of those silly “man” restrictions), everything he said is true lol. 1. “i really like you.” unfortunately for us, true. 2. “i know that you’re goodlooking, i know that you’re cool” (he does). 3. “i even love the curls in your hair.” well. close enough. 4. “i can even kiss those curls. you don’t think i can do it?” and then he did. 5. “i love you!” can’t be untrue because some people base their idea of love on these two…! so, both kids’ confessions were “honest”, but myungsoo just preferred sungyeol’s lol. 

i’m saying this with the acute awareness that this was scripted, so i’m not sure dafuq i’m going on about lol. just makin’ a hot mess of myself that’s all. just leave me be.

lol woogyu was like a parent team that got stuck together after they let all their children pair off and they just shrug like, “lol whatever honey let’s just go with it. for the sake of the kids. and getting it done faster.” and yadong was basically- “hey hyung, you sexy i sexy, let’s make it we sexy~” >.> 참…

questions & answers TAG.

I was tagged by matgyeol unni! who is like one of my favorite people in the world literally +_+ always by my side, always keepin’ it real, always my precious~

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having a mental breakdown rn because i’m JUST discovering a bunch of new year/birthday greetings in my inbox and it’s just like. i MISSED ALL this??? how dumb/rude am i?? like how did i not know? or did i see just not have time to reply? but it’s fuckin’ july already! almost august…wow. like i’m so happy to find these because it fuzzles my heart, but i also feel so sorry to my loved ones, aw ._. 

infinitepearls sent: Happy new year Tiffany! ♥ (and also belated happy birthday, I'm soooo sorry)

HOW DID I JUST DISCOVER THIS OMG. cyne baby, i’m so sorry ._. but thank you so much for sending me this! lol idec if your birthday wish was late, i just appreciate it whole-heartedly! thanks for always following me and kakao me sometime, k lol we haven’t talked for a couple weeks uh oh. love you!

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sarahcaastic sent: Tiffany! Happy New Year! I look forward to your glorious metas and tags and your adorable self in the future!

i am such a shitty person. i cannot believe i didn’t see this!!! IT’S ALREADY PAST HALFWAY THROUGH THE YEAR. omg, i am so sorry, dear. i was randomly digging through my inbox today and i discovered this. thank you so much for sending me this even i’m a shit and i hope you’re having a wonderful year! (though last i talked to you- omg you still talked to me ㅠㅠ you’re too kind- you seemed to be doing well~) i’m blogging a bit more recently (probably because i have more time since honey is in korea and i have a car so i get home earlier from work) so i hope you enjoy!

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infiniteficreclistot7 sent: which infinite era was your favorite for your bias? picture evidence is appreciated :)

THIS IS THE FUCKIN’ FOURTH TIME I AM ATTEMPTING THIS ASK. omg please. ㅠㅠ so tired of writing it over and over lol. OKAY. SO! the thing is that the chaser is like. the best era overall for the group. the song, choreo, styling, everything! was so so beautiful. such an excellent production, really. but i’ll do specific answers too. i’ve included a few links to pictures in the answers below~

sunggyu- ugh, remember how delicious he was with his swishy caramel hair and tummy-revealing knit shirt and pretty blazer jacket (matching with yeol)? ooh, unf. but besides the chaser…i’ll say…either destiny or 내꺼하자 because…was anyone else diggin’ the eccentric orchestra conductor look he was sporting? can you see him as a young prodigy that graduated music school ahead of his class? ughh hot. weirdly hot. and 내꺼하자 because arm exposure. we must all acknowledge and appreciate the greatness that is kim sunggyu’s thick, subtly strong arms. also- sunggyu looks so good with honey colored hair and i like when he has it up in this tough look!

dongwoo- remember the great times when dongwoo had the blue hair, truly proving that he can beautify any hair color and style, and sported the moto vest and strutted around rolling his hips while thrusting his champion’s pelvis always? the chaser is so good to me. anyway! hm. i loved loved loved dongwoo with pink hair. i think he pulled it off the best out of all the male idols in my eyes. and he just embodied the special girl concept so well! 

woohyun- paradise or 내꺼하자. i actually didn’t like his outfit for the chaser very much (i actually think he gets the short end of the stick styling-wise for all their singles) and i have a hard time being attracted to him when he has thick, floppy hair with bangs that almost cover his eyes. it does nothing for his face shape and eyes. but in paradise and 내꺼하자 all that hair was lifted up out of his eyes into electrified ocean waves~ of sexiness that knocked me into oblivihyun! yes 굿! and you can’t go wrong with nam woohyun in suits or tight turtlenecks, thrusting them strong hips like no tomorrow. also, i will NEVEr get over his smolder & gentle-chest-swipe-head-roll move…one of the best parts of 내꺼하자 lbr.

hoya- I LOVE LEE HOWON IN BLONDE HAIR!!! not that platinum 80’s-punk-boy fashion from last romeo, but rather that soft, smooth, golden honey blonde from…idek when that was i just know i love it to the ends of the earth. hoya actually has a very delicate and pretty face, save for his jawline and brows, so that blonde really just. cherry on top of a sundae. deliciousness all ‘round, people. but era-wise…i really don’t know for hoya…he’s the equally attractive in all the eras (probably because the stylists play it safe with him). i just- i get so touched by the wonderfulness that was his purple hair during chaser era…like…up or down that hair crowned that face so well. and the chaser outfits were so good for his body…showing off his arms and emphasizing that butt and those legs. WOO!

sungyeol- NO ONE WILL EVER BE OKAY WITH PRINCE SUNGYEOL RE: 추격자 ERA!!! those long, fine tendrils of angel hair! that outfit with the sheer knit shirt and blazer accented with a scarf that illuminated his wonderfully long model’s body! the princely catwalk at the first twinging notes of korean folk stylized electronic instrumentals! GOD BLESS. but i think all of us would agree that- WOW. lee sungyeol, right now, at this moment, during the back (also last romeo) promotions, is at the pinnacle of handsome and beauty. like. who can contest this level of attractiveness? all of sungyeol’s hairstyles are hair porn- he is just blessed with good hairstyles + he pulls off each one like no one’s business, but the hairstyle he sports now…that disney prince hair with the curled fringe~ is the absolute best use of dead protein cells that i have ever seen. i just love that he is in charge of the bridge in the song and he also has another amazing outfit this time around…HE IS ALSO BRINGING BACK DA PRINCE CATWALK. i know, love, i know…me and my girls are all crying too…

myungsoo- kim myungsoo at the start of the chaser mv, where he is killin’ the camera softly with his stare and sunggyu is pulling at his heart, is the perfect elf prince to stand at prince sungyeol’s side. so much handsome goin’ on that era. but right now i am really liking kim myungsoo in that fried blonde hair for back. i was previously convinced that kim myungsoo will probably never change his hair color because of his acting/cf appeal, and that he’d probably look weird with brighter colors anyway. but we all wrong sometimes. even me. i raise my hand and confess now that i was wrong- kim myungsoo looks tough, sexy with that hair, like he is a new man. when he spaces out, he doesn’t look like a cold hearted killer anymore; he looks like a cold hearted player..rocker..dude. (i know, i’m laughing too.) anyway, i find myungsoo so hot when he does the galloping horse-snappy finger dance during back. so, hair and galloping horse dance. why i love myungsoo’s back. (i can’t find pictures of myungsoo- what.)

sungjong- all bow down to lee sungjong. he is beautiful in any era, but remember how emotionally provoking he was during the chaser? like that long side fringe that covered one of his lovely sharp eyes and his slinky body in that suit…oh yes. but surprise, surprise. i actually loved sungjong in man in love! he had a weird ahjumma-esque hairstyle, yes, but he pulled it off so well and it actually emphasized his beauty even more. like, “just when i thought he couldn’t get any prettier!” that era was also when sungjong just GLOWED with his bright, youthful glory. he outshined his hyungs and owned that stage like no other. it was amazing. i’m not one to particularly want sungjong in a more “manly” or more “feminine” styling because i think sungjong can’t be confined to those labels, so i know my answer can be surprising, but sungjong probably really made men fall in love. true meaning of man in love. 

i stuck with physical appearance reasons for my choices in this ask because it gets more complicated when i broaden the scope to other factors hehe. but even within physical appearance categories- like answers might change if i just stuck to hairstyles, for instance. 

feel free to contest my thoughts! feel free to comment on my thoughts! feel free to just squeal over infinite! thanks for asking this, my new buddy rae! hope you enjoyed my answers~

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everyone wants a child like dongwoo

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Hoya’s message to his father

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Tags #i understand both sides of hoya's past situation tbh #this is not an uncommon story #it's unique in that hoya became a star and he had a generally happy ending #but can't we all relate on some level? #esp if you have strict/traditional/korean parents...you'll understand hoya's father too #because he's not unlike your own #because i love my dad i took time to consider his feelings #so i understand hoya's dad as much as a stranger can #but the thing is- i can't say that how he dealt with the situation is okay on any level #hoya was young as fuck when he left- it's not okay that he didn't stay in touch- but that's why kids need parents #because they're immature. and so hoya's dad should've been the one to put his pride and pain aside and TRY #most korean kids at least from my generation grew up with spanking. we don't necessarily define it as abuse #because it's traditional discipline when used with the right intentions (one should never ever do it out of anger) #but i want to know if hoya's dad even tried to talk to him about it? before he lifted the bat?? #that's a small thing but so important when parenting. i can confidently say this even though i'm not a parent #and the fact that he drinks...that's not okay. it's 99% of korea but still not okay #traditional koreans will say that it's bad of hoya to openly talk about his father on broadcast and also mention his drinking #because it gives his father a bad 'face' #but imagine how painful it must have been for hoya to have held this inside all these years... #sure he probably discussed it with close members and friends but it's clear that it was bubbling inside him #hoya #infinite #oh hoaegi 


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